How time flies. It is 2014 already. This is my fourteenth year as a wife and thirteenth year as a mother. In the midst of making resolutions what do we, as a woman, always think of first? Family, family, and family.
However, this year I believe it is truly the year that I get to find myself again, after 'enslaving' myself to the new member of our family for the past 3 years! Now that she is going to preschool, I have more time to do the things that I want to do instead of the things that I need to do. So, what are the things that I really, really want to do in 2014? I suppose it may not be something that will be meaningful to other people. In fact, it may not even have an ounce of chance to change the world for a better place. However, I am sure it will be something that is meaningful to me:
1. Fitness: As I have been getting on and off the fitness wagon for the past few years, I feel that this year I really need to buff up my fitness regime. I have lost 2 days already, as it is. No more excuses, especially in the morning, when the children are in school.
2. Finance: I need to get more organized and informed in my investment and budgeting information. Should I read more on this?
3. Cooking: Hmm, guess I need to do more research on cooking vegetarian food at home. Also, I am planning to cook better and bake more so that my children get more nutritious home cooked food. The most important thing is not to feel let down when no one wants to eat my food. A point to remember is it is not about me or my food. It is just that they are not a good eater.
4. Reading: My target this year is to read more and faster. I have accumulating enough unread books to fill a whole bookshelf. Should I change my reading style?
5. Personal: I would like to spend more time beautify myself this year. Learning more about makeup and hairstyle even though I hate them. I have to look well groomed wherever I go. So, this is one thing that I have to do what I have to do for myself. Sigh!
6. House: As much as I would like to spruce up how my house look, I have to admit I am bad at interior design and decorating. So, more reading on this, I guess. And trial and error....
7. Gardening: Again, this is one area that I am still struggling to excel in after all these years. Sorry, plants, if by any chance, any of you have to sacrifice under my apprenticeship to better myself in gardening. For this, I have to visit nurseries and gardening centres more frequently as reading does not help much.
8. Needlework: My favourite thing to do, even though I have not been doing it in years. Need to brush up my skills and try to include more handicraft, if time permits. On top of that, one thing that I would like to look into is how to teach needlework to young children. So, am I qualify to teach if I am not good in needlework myself?
9. Voluntary Work: This has been in my mind for the longest time. Since I am not working, I was and still am thinking to do some voluntary work on weekday mornings. Procrastination won and I am still in Ground Zero. Guess have to take the first step this year.
10. Social: I guess I have to get out of my comfort zone and be anti-antisocial. As much as I hate to talk to people, I have to force myself to do this. Why? Why? I do not feel comfortable in this. One thing for sure is I will not strive to better my relationship with people I find difficult, especially those that are trying to make my life miserable. I will remain in my own cocoon.
So, do I need to divide myself into 10 or make 10 copies of myself to make all the above possible. Let us sit back and see. No! We can not possibly sit back. Let us take some action and review this again when the year ends.
Hope the happy new year will become the happy new me!
